My birthday!

Today I am 39. I wish I could get into the habit again of taking photos everyday. This decade-long hobby of picture taking and blogging is somehow at risk. I have been thinking that I need to get a different camera, a smaller one, maybe one I could put in my pocket – like an iPhone and give up on my DSLR. But then I get all upset at the lame picture quality berate myself for not taking photos everyday with the camera that I have.

All I have for today is a picture that is over 2 weeks old! I feel undocumented.

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We are having a good case of the grumps around here.  Jeremy and I were talking about it last night and he mentioned that the week between our birthdays (the 7th for him, the 14th for me) has always been a bad week for us.  It kind of coincides with the start of the school year, our anniversary, our birthdays, the end of the fiscal year for both of our jobs and – this year in particular – Jeremy is traveling a lot.  I joke a lot that Jeremy’s work travel is his “vacation” because he gets to go to cool places with cool people, but I know that he works a lot on these business trips and they can be very draining on him.  I also know that he misses us and tries to not be away from home more than he needs to be.

Anyways, I mercilessly teased him for MONTHS when I found out he was going to a business trip in Monterey, CA and have a catered dinner in the aquarium! Really, what could be more fabulous than that? Not much really. OK, well maybe being in Monterey with us. Without the work 🙂

Labor day party.

In my Sociology 101 class, we’ve been learning about the capitalist and the worker classes.  Marx, Weber, and Durkheim – the three classical sociologists.  Usually I think I’m surrounded by natural scientists who know nothing about the social sciences, but I’ve had conversations with a bunch of people in the last week who have basically fallen over themselves all excited to tell me about the three dead white guys who started the field of sociology.

In the spirit of honoring the worker class, we went out to my friend Andy’s annual Labor Day party.  He is a wonderful man with a knack for the wacky and fun.  In the backyard, he has a pool and trampoline.  Sound pretty OK so far, right?  But wait!  He also has a cotton candy machine, 2 machines cranking out 5 flavors of slushies and 3 working pinball machines.  He is an ebay scounger, craigslist follower and master tinkerer trying to fix all these machines that he finds for bargain basement prices.

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Vince ran around and tried all the flavors of slushie and the cotton candy. Edda was a little underwhelmed as you can tell from this photo!

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Edda falls asleep in the most unlikely of places.

Edda’s school year has started and it is always nice to see her enjoying her friends and teachers at school.  I just finished reading a memoir called Keeping Katherine.  The author has a daughter who has Rett Syndrome (who is now in her 30s) and I really enjoyed reading it.   Some of the feelings that she expresses are spot on with what I felt or what I feel – other very strong feelings that she had did not apply to me at all. I’ve known about this book for a long time, but I did not read it until now because I didn’t not think I was ready yet. My own feelings about Edda and her disability are always such a jumble – acceptance, grief, hope, action and, of course, love – it’s very difficult for me to put into words.

In the photo of Edda above, you will notice she’s wearing a silver necklace.  It is the guanine base pair, the one that she is missing (806delG).  Guanine pairs with cytosine in the DNA strand – so I always wear my cytosine necklace.  

Althea and John’s anniversary –

We headed out for a nice 15th anniversary party for some friends of ours, it was a really lovely evening and we got to play some games, eat good food and meet some new people.

Vince busted out his gogos,  which he tried to patiently explain to some adults at the party.  Nigel, his pal, contributed Transformers. 

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Jeremy met a woman who works in the same building as he does, just 2 floors down. Jeremy’s building is not very big, one figures that you’d get to know a lot of the people in the building! Apparently, they have not noticed each other in the many years that they have been sharing an elevator.

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First week of school, done!

The first week of school for everyone (including me) is done!  Hooray!  But, of course, my blogging is a few weeks behind – here is a photo of all of us at a beach near Portland a few weeks ago.  Trying to capture the last bit of summer before Jeremy gets home from his business trip this week; because he’s been gone for a week, I haven’t counted this week as “getting back into our routine”.  That’s for next week!

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