I took mom out to lunch today. We split an apple pie. My mother does love a good apple pie. Remember when McDonald’s apple pie was deep fried? That’s mom’s favorite.
Then we stopped off at Target. I needed to buy Vince some AXE deodorant (with scents like Apollo, Phoenix, and Black Chill).
Some PT moves: supination
and ulnar deviation.
Gotta love a boy and his dog.
If one is lucky, there is a brief (or if you are even luckier, extended) moment in mid-life where your kids are old enough to make their own peanut butter and jelly sandwiches and your parents are young enough to travel and be independent and enjoy all the benefits of their years of hard work. I think that moment for me is right this very minute. I’m trying to do so many things before this window of opportunity closes – I’m so enjoying everything right now (especially if I get enough sleep).
This week has provided just a tiny taste of what taking care of my parents will really mean. I actually uttered the words, “Are you sure you don’t want to move in with us for a few weeks?”
Took mom today for her ortho follow-up after the surgery. My mother is very trusting of the doctors. I asked, are there screws? plates? in your arm? Do you know if the metal is going to come out later? Are you going to have PT? No one is really sure. Hmmm. So I saw the x-ray today. There is one huge plate running down the proximal ulnar bone with about 9 screws holding it in place. There is one screw that appears to be going in diagonally through the joint. I’m not even sure what that one is there for. Mom shattered the elbow end of the ulna into a million pieces. Thank God it wasn’t her hip.
Ten days in the splint has rendered the elbow and wrist both stiff. So we made it to PT where flexion, extension, range of motion were all measured. Mom’s going to do PT exercises every hour (!) to try and regain the full range of motion. So it means PT sessions 2-3 times a week for 2-3 months. So dad is working in TN and I’m here handling PT sessions with Mom. I love you, Mom! It’s no trouble really.
Mom did invite me out to lunch after a morning full of bone-related appointments. I declined citing that I actually needed to do some work. You know, to pay the mortgage.
Bro,
You are totally buying me a very nice dinner somewhere for doing your half of the driving.
Love,
Sis
Jeremy’s out of town for 10 days. He’s rarely gone for the weekend, but this weekend he’s not here. It’s just me, Edda and Vince. The weekend was so beautiful, all the windows in the house were wide open to bring the outside to the inside. Vince likes to make sure Edda is well hydrated.
I’m trying to teach Vince how to study. He is falling behind in Chinese because he’s having trouble remembering how to write the characters. We got an app for flashcards and I’m teaching him what it really means to study efficiently. He kind of groans, but he puts up with it. It does take 40 minutes to go through the stack. It’s not easy for Vince to understand that these things take diligent work and that work is sometimes tedious and boring. I’m actually going through the flashcards at the same time with Vince. Maybe it means that I’ll be literate in Chinese someday. Vince does score better than I do on being able to recall the characters. It’s been many years since I’ve written any Chinese words, it’s interesting to see what I can still remember. Of course, I know only the complicated characters and Vince knows only simplified.
Christine introduced Vince to ketchup flavored potato chips. Gross. Blech.