Kiki’s surprise birthday party!

We drove to NYC this past weekend to surprise Kiki with a birthday/retirement party. And boy was Kiki surprised! Jeremy and Bob have been planning for months – lots of folks from out-of-town came to celebrate. There were Kiki’s friends from high school, college and beyond – about 30 people. (That would be two parties planned by Jeremy within 10 days of each other, we are partied out). I did not get an actual “surprise” photo. It was a little difficult to manage Edda and Vincent (who were two of the three small children in attendance) in a relatively small space with adult food and wine everywhere and allowing them both to stay up past their bedtime. So no free hands for too many photos –

The party –

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The princess cake and linzer torte –

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We stayed overnight in a Quality Inn in Queens which was 15 minutes from the party and yet only $127 for the night and free parking to boot! I love Queens! Edda loves hotel rooms – whenever we travel, she seems to love being in hotel rooms. The layout sometimes presents a challenge as she likes leaning up against the bed and sometimes she misjudges the width of the bed and leans back into thin air and sets herself up for a tumble…

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Edda and Christmas.

I was looking at Edda the other day, her head tilted towards her father who was holding her in a standing embrace and realized that Edda is really no longer a young toddler/preschooler/kindergartner. I think we are passing into another stage of Edda’s life – not one really marked with the same milestones as with other typical children, but marked by more subtle challenges and changing experiences.

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Hanukkah, DC Martins Gathering & Dog Park

Yesterday (12/5/10), we hosted a DC Martins’ weekly gathering at our house. There, we all celebrated Hanukkah together. In the meantime, Rena was busy doing the cooking and we were all enjoying her dishes very much. All evening, our house became a dog park – with 4 or 5(?) dogs around. Fortunately, no dog poop was found inside the house so far. But, if we do, Ruby wasn’t the one for sure 🙂

My Old Neighborhood in Shanghai, China in 1999

When I dig up my old pictures on film the other day, I found this one. It was in 1999, in Shanghai, in front of my old neighborhood. I lived there until I was almost 5. At that time in 1999, my poor neighborhood was in the process of swallowing up by brand new high-rise apartments on all sides. Now, all these old houses probably are all gone. But, I guess the Confucius Temple nearby probably survived.
Doris, Donald and Mom, do we all look much younger in this picture 🙂

Ducks.

Jeremy was in Boston for a few days this week for work. He managed to come home 3 hours early on Wed. which meant that he would be home for dinner! I made a turkey pot pie out of the last of the Thanksgiving turkey.

While in Boston, he found a few minutes to find the ducks of Make Way for Ducklings which he has read to both Vince and Edda innumerable times.

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Whenever he goes to Boston, I always want to go with him, but alas, I got a tetanus booster instead (which is rendering my left arm pretty much unusable ’cause it hurts so much!).

Maxi mystery solved.

Maxi has been a part of our family for about a month now. Long enough for us to settle into our daily routines. We got Maxi from a Lab rescue organization and I know she had a purebred Lab mother because both Maxi and her mom came to the rescue together, but Maxi is so not Lab-like that it was driving me crazy. WHO WAS MAXI’S FATHER?

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I’m going to complain a little bit about our dog – it is only because the dog will never learn to read that I am going to do this. Maxi barks. A lot. Maxi is a little stinky. Maxi is not yet housebroken despite being diligently crate trained. Maxi doesn’t really want to do what I tell her to do. Now a Lab generally does not bark. Ruby was house trained in about 24 hours. Ruby is not really malodorous. Ruby might not always do what I want, but she will never give you the hairy eyeball signaling – I know what you want me to do, but I’m going to do this other annoying thing (like knocking all the houseplants over). Even though Ruby is a mutt, I’m pretty sure she’s 75% Lab/Golden. Maxi is great in many ways, very loving, wants to be in the middle of everything, gets Ruby to play during the middle of the day and is an enthusiastic cuddler and tail wagger. She loves the kids/strangers and other doggies. But what genetic weirdness is showing up in our mutt?

So after weeks of fiddling around the internet, with the words, barking, stinky, difficult to housetrain and stubborn, I have discovered Maxi’s father’s identity!

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Maxi’s dad was a BEAGLE. I went to the Lab-rescue and I got a Lab-colored beagle! From everything I can figure out, Beagles are awesome dogs, but they can be a lot of work (at least compared to a Lab). Beagles are great family pets, but hard to train. We are actually not very good trainers. Our main method of training is to wait until the dog gets older and tires of our lame shenanigans. Hence the desire for a Lab who’s only desire in the world is to do whatever anyone tells them to do. Not a Beagle who’s main claim to fame is stubbornness.

Apparently Lab/Beagle mixes are not entirely unknown. This is from the Beagle entry of the Wikipedia.

The Labbe, or Beagador, crosses a Beagle with the Labrador Retriever. The cross arose from naturally occurring crosses adopted from shelters. The Labbe (pronounced Lab ee)is an energetic dog that normally features the Labrador parent’s solid color (Chocolate, Black, Fawn, which tends to be darker than a Labrador) with white on the toes, chest and occasionally the chin. The dog grows to about the same size as a large beagle and tops out at between 30 and 40 pounds. The advantage is much of the looks and skill of a Labrador Retriever in a more compact dog that is resistant to some of the Labrador’s genetic problems, and not as prone to shed. However, Labbes often inherit the Beagle’s famous bark and a healthy dose of stubbornness.

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I guess I’m looking forward to less shedding.  Which is good because we bought all the furniture to match Ruby’s hair.

I am still blogging about the long weekend.

My mother told me that I would never find myself a husband because I didn’t know how to cook. Now I know how to cook – I learned most everything I know about cooking from my husband! Jeremy cooked so much this weekend and he loved every minute of it (including the part where he melted plastic wrap all over a brand new turkey pan).

These are sticky buns for a brunch we hosted:

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