Sad but that Is Life

Jen was my colleague in Singer Simulation. His two kids played with Doris & Donald occasional back in the 70s.

Unfortunately or fortunately, he has had lung cancer for almost 5 years. Last Thanksgiving, we invited Jen, his wife and many other friends to our house. He was fine and we enjoyed our food, conversation and gathering a lot.

However, on Thurday last week, I received a phone call with a very bad news to tell that Jen’s wife was in coma right after brain surgery on Jan 22nd at Johns Hopkins Hospital.

She was perfectly healthy just about one month ago. It happened so suddenly that right after Christmas, she lost her short term memory. Then she was diagnosed brain tumors. It was later found to be cancerous and also was the most aggressive kind.

Today, I received words that she is still in coma. Doctors and people around her realize it is really very bad indeed.

One more sad thing, the kid, across the U street, has some kind of illness that he can not move around easily. I asked his father yesterday about his situation. He is not improving at all, just hanging there. And his father said “That Is Life”. Life? Very unpredictable…

Good grief, we’re grumpy.

This weekend was a bit strange. Jeremy’s been a bit off – he’s over caffeinated and therefore doesn’t sleep well. There is a lot to think about and do over the next few months – moving back to the US, starting up a new job and setting up stuff for the kids. We’ve moved so many times before, I’m hoping this will be the last one for a little while (and when I say little while – I’m hoping for at least 3 years!)

None of us are sleeping that well. Vince, Jeremy and I all get up at least once in the night to switch beds, Edda wakes up at least twice asking for a parent, none of the wakings last long (usually), but they are disruptive. We all wake up in different rooms than when we started.

Today, Jeremy met up with Zeng-Gang, his adviser from graduate school. He was doing an eight hour layover in Singapore on his way to India and he managed to squeeze in a visit with Jeremy. We waited for him at the Esplanade – downtown along the waterfront. I asked Jeremy to take the quintessential Singapore tourist photo.

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I love lifelines. I haven’t needed to use one yet on this project, thank goodness, but they are all still there. Does this mean I am afraid of risk? Perhaps.

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Scientific name: Cordyline terminalis
Common name: Ti Tree
Location: Singapore

High K? High K?!!??!!

In an interesting announcement, Intel and IBM have developed the supposed “biggest change in semiconductors in over 40 years”. I’m a little dubious about that claim, however, when looking at the diagram, I notice that they use a high K dialectric for their gate material. I thought everyone was all hyped up on low K stuff. Or am I getting my transistor structure totally confused here. Perhaps someone from a highly respected competitor would care to chime in?

Ah I see. I just need to do some research on wikipedia. High-K good for transistor gate material. Low-K good for interconnect material. Hrm, but really? 40 years?

Mom’s post.

Mom is having trouble logging into her account, so I’m posting this for her..

I have moved into my two bedrooms apartment and last night, I cooked my first meal at apartment. I have soup, fish and green beams. Cleanup lady comes once a week. But I still want wash my cloth by myself. The washer works very well. The dryer is very very small. I use cloth line and dry naturally.

The air is not clean so I closed windows. Some items are not cheap. I bought some CD. The average price is $6 each. One is about $12. Food is relatively cheap. Some fruits are not cheap.

I had allergy reaction the first day I moved into apartment due to dust. I had swallow eyes. They toke me to the company’s healthy clinic. The lady doctor is very nice and she gave me some eye drop and some medicine.

First week was bit rough. Now I am settle down. Yesterday, I took subway, and went to TEEMall. It is a very nice mall and the lady’s room is very clean. I like that.

I think, this is my last job and ready to retire and run MiniSystems leisurely.

My date with Vince.

Today Vince and I went out on a date. He took me to our neighborhood mall for some sushi. Decorations for Chinese New Year are all up and they are playing terrible, terrible Chinese new year songs in all the retail stores. Blech!

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My Icarus is continuing smoothly. I put in some good knitting time today and I’m almost done with Chart 2, the first section of the border. The feathers of Icarus are starting to form!

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I mentioned that when I was doing the paired yarn overs that one seemed to use a lot more yarn than the other and it did result in lopsided eyelets. The one on the right is larger than the one on the left because I had to go further around the needle to reach the next purl stitch. I guess the blocking will take care of it.

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I was in the library today when I looked at 50 New Milanese Lace Patterns by Patricia Read. I know this isn’t knitting, but I loved looking at these lace projects.

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Maybe something like this can be incorporated into a lace knitting project? Hmmm.

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Scientific name: Oxalys
Common name: Wood Sorrel
Location: Austin, TX

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Sweet. I just picked my first double sided lock.

JT, Frank and a friend of his are going off to Tahoe in about 5 hours. JT was busy at home, putting stuff in his car, and he went to go put his snowboard up on his SUV, and doh! He found the ski attachment was locked. Well, no problem, he’ll just find the key and open it. Unfortunately the key was stuck in the other ski attachment – or rather I should say, half of the key was stuck there. Last season, JT managed to rip his key in half in his haste to come inside from the cold. So he was stuck…

He calls me up and luckily I had some spring steel that I had ground down into a lock pick at the bike shop. So I went over there and picked it. Sweet. I’m proud of myself, and have promptly earned a ton of, as Allen Iverson would say, street cred.

Timed photos.

Yesterday I taught Vince how to use the timer function on my camera. He experimented. Jeremy wasn’t home yesterday for the timed photo so tonight Vince wanted to show off his new skill and propped the camera on our electronic keyboard for a family photo.

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“You were standing right in front of me, Vince!”, said Jeremy. So Vince runs and tries to set up another photo. He grabs for the camera and resets the timer and balances it on the keyboard again but this time I see the camera slide off the keyboard and smash onto our marble flooring, which is pretty hard, just ask Edda who still falls and hits her head on it every once in a while.

Does it still work?

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(Look at Vince’s face of concern. He did apologize quite promptly and rubbed my cheek with his little hand.) Apparently it still focuses and takes pictures although the outer case is a bit dinged up and it’s a little difficult to push the power button. Oh well, remind me again how I should never ever buy a super expensive camera.

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I’m making progress on my Icarus shawl. Thank goodness the main part of the shawl is over, it was really quite boring after I got over the initial shock of starting my first real lace project.

I’ve copied the pattern and I’m slowly crossing off the rows. I always imagine people knitting without patterns in front of them, but somehow I can’t manage this. Maybe someday…

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The repeats are pretty easy to remember but I have to remember not to fly by the center spine which is slightly different than the body of the repeat. In the past I’ve actually had the stitch marker on the needle and I had to slide it from one needle to the next and I hated doing this, so I stopped marking the center spine. Then for about 5 RS rows, I completely knit past the center without noticing and I would have to backtrack. So I went back to marking, but this time, just a little under the needle, so no sliding and I can see when the center is coming up! So lame not to think of this earlier.

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The fringe part is filled with unusual yarn overs. From a knit stitch to a yarn over to a purl stitch to a yarn over to a knit stitch. The first yarn over seems a mile longer than the second yarn over, but I guess it will all even out with blocking.

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Scientific name: Solanum rostratum
Common name: buffalo burr
Location: Austin, TX

Spaghetti night.

Thursday is spaghetti night. Spaghetti is our favorite family meal, everyone loves to eat it – no one complains. Edda eats it all chopped up, Vince and Jeremy like to twirl with a spoon and I just shovel it in.

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Sausage first. I cut it up into disks when they are frozen because I usually forget to put them into the fridge to defrost the night before. Today we had no onions, I usually throw a chopped one in. Then we add our favorite sauce.

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I always laugh because Vince loves Paul Newman! I tried to explain that he is more famous for being a movie star but Vince thinks that he is the sauce man. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a movie starring Mr. Newman, but I’ve eaten gallons of his sauce. We have to go downtown to the fancy supermarket to horde up on this stuff. It’s good.

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I started knitting Pomatomus from knitty.com.

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It’s my first time doing twisted stitches and so far the 1P, 1K tbl is working out just fine. I’m embarrassed to say that sometimes I forget which way to wrap the yarn around the needle to make the stitch straight or twisted so I’m hoping that I don’t screw up the pattern too much.

I’m using Sockotta yarn, which has a high cotton content and I think that will make the details of the sock show up better. Normally I’d feel a bit nervous about using a striping sock yarn on this textured pattern, but I think it’ll turn out fine. I do love the denim-y feel to the yarn.

Also, the pattern called for size 2 needles which is pretty standard for socks, but I find that the stitches turn out too loose for my taste, so I switched to size 0.

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Scientific name: Agaricus
Common name: mushroom
Location: Singapore

Falling asleep.

Edda fell asleep in the car today. Unusual for her.

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So Vince picked up the slack at physical therapy.

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Today Edda told me that she had to go to the potty – by ripping the “toilet” PECS sign off the wall at her school! It could not have been clearer.

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Scientific name: Thunbergia grandiflora
Common name: Blue Skyflower
Location: Singapore

Things about Doris – (#1-10) Food

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1. I love McDonald’s and when I am there I usually order a Big Mac.
2. I love oranges, peaches and cherries.
3. I would like to be a vegetarian, but cooking with meat makes meal planning and cooking easier.
4. When I was in college, I had pretty bad heartburn which went away after I became vegetarian for about a year.
5. I did not know how to cook when I got married.
6. I do not drink coffee but I go to Starbucks often.
7. I prefer salty snacks over sweet snacks – Doritos over Hershey’s any day.
8. Now I can cook pretty well.
9. I didn’t eat avocado, mayonnaise, or sour cream regularly until 1996.
10. I like to try new things so there is nothing on my absolutely-will-not-eat list.

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Scientific name: Gardenia coronata
Common name: Yellow Gardenia
Location: Singapore