I Don’t Wanna Go On With You Like That

Tonight I’m in a funk. You know it’s that feeling you get when one of your not-so-close friends, but better-than-aquaintence friends spends $400 to get 3rd row tickets to the sold out Elton John concert with his new girlfriend and he runs to the lunch room all excited and tells everyone about how cool it’s going to be and even though you never really liked Elton John (a bit cheezy and what’s with the weird costumes?), it seems as if he’s having more fun than you sitting at home eating cold pizza and watching TiVoed episodes of Project Runway with some great friends who are bringing cold beers and you know you are going to laugh until it comes out your nose.

I know, it just doesn’t make any sense, because, really what is better than beer coming out of your nose?

can turn grey skies blue!

Finally the rains have come – the haze has been washed away, and I awoke to clear blue skies! Hooray!

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Edda enjoyed the morning sunshine through her window as she tried to wack Vincent awake with her armbrace. Get out of the way of that brace, it’s a loaded weapon!

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Today, Vince started gymnastics at Sporty Joe’s. He loved every moment of it, the uneven bars, the vault (it’s hilarious watching 2 year-olds try to vault), the trampoline, etc.

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Vince is now signed up for 3 classes: swimming, music and gymnastics and he loves them all. Before each class, he revvs himself up with so much excitement, you can almost see sparks fly from his head. It is with some feeling of defeat when I realize that this is the solution I have come up with for entertaining my children. I had a vision when I moved to Singapore that the kids would spend the mornings in school and in the afternoons, we would find friends and go to the park, zoo or pool with them and I wouldn’t sign up for any scheduled activity. The weather is great, you can always be outside and there are plenty of things to do. But first, we had trouble meeting friends – everyone else was signed up for stuff or waaayyy to busy to hang out, or maybe I’m just lame and can’t get past the hi in the hallway phase. And now, with all of Edda’s therapy appointments, we barely have any free time to just hang. And I started to feel bad that Vince just got schlepped to all these appointments and he had to make do with the toys in the waiting room.

He was so excited that the gymnastics class was for him and not Edda. He calls it his own physical therapy class and he said that he would teach Edda everything. Edda had her own turn sitting in the waiting area – when she realized the class wasn’t for her, she was pissed. Cried and thrashed around. It took at good 15 minutes to calm her down.

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On a side technical note:

I’ve been pushing the boundaries of my camera recently. I like taking close-up photos of moving people in low indoor lighting and no flash and as a result, all my pictures are blurry. Jeremy’s been looking at cameras again, but I don’t think I’m replacing mine, even though I’ve had it a year and it is no longer sold, I think of it as being new. Argh, I wish I was a better photographer.

Just regular commuting…

Yes. I finally was able to drive to work today. Actually as it turns out, I was able to drive to work yesterday, except I didn’t get the memo from my muslim friends. Sigh.

So today, I did a lot of things I couldn’t do with a car – I went thru the drive thru at In-n-Out Burger, I went shopping at Macy’s in Stanford Shopping Mall, I got a Chai Latte from Starbucks, and browsed a bit at Best Buy.

I also had a frosted cinnamon roll. mmmm. It was a good day. 🙂

La la la la!

Today is Hari Raya, the end of Ramadan, a public holiday in Singapore. So Donald, I suppose you are driving your car again after weeks of pedal power.

We went to a playdate today where we met an eye surgeon! Woo hoo, we peppered him with questions about Lasik – Jeremy’s still thinking about getting it done. But both Mr. EyeSurgeon and Mrs. EyeSurgeon wore spectacles (aka glasses for the non-British / non-Singaporean). Hmmm, might that be a clue? Mr. EyeSurgeon (a 38 yo man) said he didn’t get Lasik because he felt he would need reading glasses soon anyway and since all his work involves close work it wouldn’t help him avoid glasses.

Dakshi also came over for a delicious fajita dinner.

Weekend Update…

Craziness this weekend.

Dave and Xiaoli flew in from Toronto and we all had a whirlwind of activites. Of course, this mostly revolved around eating and hanging out with married folks. Ha. Speaking of weight, I gained like 4 lbs this weekend simply cause of the food. I had been doing pretty good cutting back food before that. Sigh.

They came Thursday night, and we stayed up till midnight. Friday we stayed up until 1. Saturday was the killer as everyone stayed up till 6. I was a little beat on Saturday cause I had to bike home Friday night, got like 5 hours of sleep, biked to the shop, biked home, and then biked back the Shwe and Xin’s place. So I probably put in 80 miles roughly on Saturday alone, topping that off with low sleep. I woke up Sunday and just knew I was in a grumpy, anti social mood. Basically it lasted the whole day. I just really needed some chill out time alone, but I couldn’t quite ditch everyone, so yeah. It was bad. Everyone noticed, but whatever.

I’m working from home today. Thank god.

Started running again.

I’ve gained 5 pounds since I started taking antidepressants. I chalk it up to feeling better and then I eat more delicious food – so the weight gain is a good sign of my mental state, bad sign for the waistline. My pants are starting to feel a bit tight and even though I walk a lot, I don’t really bring my heartrate up very high to improve my aerobic ability, so I’ve changed my daily dog walk into my daily dog run. I hope this will enable my pants to fit again.

Ruby seems to enjoy picking up the pace a little as well. About halfway through our first run, she licked me on the knee as if to say, “Yah! We are running again – you go girl!”

McDonald’s at LA airport

Last Sunday, we were at LA airport waiting the plane to get back to Atlanta. The flight we booked was behind schedule. Daddy went to McDonald’s to buy two burgers, one for me and one for him. He ate it at the airport. I brought it on the plane and ate it when flight attendant was serving drink. Later Daddy complained about his stomach and went bathroom few times.

Aunt Margaret and Uncle Joseph left LA on Monday. It was quite surprise to me that they had McDonald’s too. Just like us, Aunt Margaret ate her burger at airport and Uncle Joseph ate his burger on plane. The funny thing was that Aunt Margaret had stomach problem also. Uncle Joseph and I did not have any problem. I guessed that McDonald’s at LA airport was not for any Lee.

Both Lees are doing all right now.

Fancy clothes.

We went to Gowri’s house today to celebrate Deepavali. I got to wear the beautiful sari that I bought yesterday. Gowri spent more time wrapping the sari around me than it took me to get ready for my own wedding. I actually felt more dressed up today than at my own wedding. It was all so beautiful and I felt so fancy.

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I hope I can remember how to tie the thing together. Gowri cooked wonderful dishes for us to eat – chicken sambal and mutton curry. Yum-o!

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We were more dressed up than anyone else I saw walking around today.